Out of the box.... mindset...

You see things; and you say: "Why?"

I dream things that never were; and I say: "Why not?"

Common SA mindset for Love and relationships?

* If you really want something in life you have to work for it.
   Now quiet!, they're about to announce the lottery numbers.   (Homer Simpson)

Is it a common ten dens to hope for the jackpot according Love and the relationship, knowing to be able to buy a new lottery ticket when you didn't won the jackpot this month? ;-)

Am I allowed to mention: A woman reaches her 20th 30th, hitting a late age for having children, important phase for they are pressured on making the choice to have children now, or it could be to late...

Which I understand.....

Where I am shocked about is the lesson I learned not long ago.

It seems that the choice for a particular Man, the future Father loses importance and value?
I get the very disturbing feeling that we again overrate ourselves, as a intelligent creature of nature
But when it comes down to it...

- Instinct
- Preservation of our species 

The Irony is the amount of people that give birth, already have to many of us, to an extent that we might running for extinction and ruin the planet if we do not stop now.....;-)
Again a interesting contradiction we seem to ignore....

Morals

Never let your sense of morals prevent you from doing what's right.

Stick by them, always, but evaluate the moment...

Quote ;-) Irony about our bullshitting democracy mindset

* So long as governments set the example of killing their enemies, private citizens will occasionally kill theirs.

* You can't say that civilization don't advance, however, for in every war they kill you in a new way.

Justice is only provided, when reality, common sense, ground rules and life balance for-mate a rightfulness response.
This is not bound to the great illusion we have about the ''pack of rules'' and ''regulations''we thought up.
It is life itself which will bring clarity, judgment, and punishment where a lesson must be learned.
The amount of people, level or hierarchy does not even play a role...

''An Eye for an Eye''
''Life's balance''
''Our God's given right for choice''

Nature has the beautiful ownership over us, we do NOT...
The only ability we own, is the knowledge to invent, construct and maintain the element of ''Brainwashing''

Quote

Whatever you can do or dream, you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.

Be a Leader

The strongest is never strong enough to be always the master, unless he transforms strength into right, and obedience into duty.

Madiba, One speech , one message , one truth, one wisdom, one goal, one achievement

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others

Nelson Mandela